NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER – The authors of No-Drama Discipline and The Yes Brain explain the new science of how a child’s brain is wired and how it matures in this pioneering, practical book.
“Simple, smart, and effective solutions to your child’s struggles.”–Harvey Karp, M.D.
Your toddler throws a tantrum in the middle of a store. Your preschooler refuses to get dressed. Your fifth-grader sulks on the bench instead of playing on the field. Do children conspire to make their parents’ lives endlessly challenging? No–it’s just their developing brain calling the shots!
In this pioneering, practical book for parents, neuroscientist Daniel J. Siegel and parenting expert Tina Payne Bryson explain the new science of how a child’s brain is wired and how it matures. Different parts of a child’s brain develop at different speeds and understanding these differences can help you turn any outburst, argument, or fear into a chance to integrate your child’s brain and raise calmer, happier children.
Featuring clear explanations, age-appropriate strategies and illustrations that will help you explain these concepts to your child, The Whole-Brain Child will help your children to lead balanced, meaningful, and connected lives using twelve key strategies, including:
Name It to Tame It: Corral raging right-brain behaviour through left-brain storytelling, appealing to the left brain’s affinity for words and reasoning to calm emotional storms and bodily tension.
Engage, Don’t Enrage: Keep your child thinking and listening, instead of purely reacting.
Move It or Lose It: Use physical activities to shift your child’s emotional state.
Let the Clouds of Emotion Roll By: Guide your children when they are stuck on a negative emotion, and help them understand that feelings come and go.
SIFT: Help children pay attention to the Sensations, Images, Feelings, and Thoughts within them so that they can make better decisions and be more flexible.
Connect Through Conflict: Use discord to encourage empathy and greater social success.
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Advance praise for The Whole-Brain Child
“Siegel and Bryson reveal that an integrated brain with parts that cooperate in a coordinated and balanced manner creates a better understanding of self, stronger relationships, and success in school, among other benefits. With illustrations, charts, and even a handy ‘Refrigerator Sheet, ‘ the authors have made every effort to make brain science parent-friendly.”–Publishers Weekly
“Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson have created a masterful, reader-friendly guide to helping children grow their emotional intelligence. This brilliant method transforms everyday interactions into valuable brain-shaping moments. Anyone who cares for children–or who loves a child–should read The Whole-Brain Child.”–Daniel Goleman, author of Emotional Intelligence
“Fears? Fights? Frustrations? Help is here! Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson turn leading brain science into simple, smart–and effective–solutions to your child’s struggles.”–Harvey Karp, M.D., bestselling author of The Happiest Baby on the Block and The Happiest Toddler on the Block
“This erudite, tender, and funny book is filled with fresh ideas based on the latest neuroscience research. I urge all parents who want kind, happy, and emotionally healthy kids to read The Whole-Brain Child. I wish I had read it when my kids were young, but no one knew then what Siegel and Bryson share with us in an immensely practical way. This is my new baby gift.”–Mary Pipher, Ph.D., author of Reviving Ophelia and The Shelter of Each Other
“The Whole-Brain Child is chock-full of strategies for raising happy, resilient children. It offers powerful tools for helping children develop the emotional intelligence they will need to be successful in the world. Parents will learn ways to feel more connected to their children and more satisfied in their role as a parent. Most of all, The Whole-Brain Child helps parents teach kids about how their brain actually works, giving even very young children the self-understanding that can lead them to make good choices and, ultimately, to lead meaningful and joyful lives.”–Christine Carter, Ph.D., author of Raising Happiness
“In their dynamic and readable new book, Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson sweep aside the old models of ‘good’ and ‘bad’ parenting to offer a scientific focus: the impact of parenting on brain development. Parents will certainly recognise themselves in the lively ‘aha’ anecdotes that fill these pages. More important, they will see how everyday empathy and insight can help a child to integrate his or her experience and develop a more resilient brain.”–Michael Thompson, Ph.D., co-author of the bestselling Raising Cain
Book Description
A pioneering and practical book for parents that explains the new science of how a child’s brain is wired and how it matures.
About the Author
Daniel J. Siegel, M.D., is clinical professor of psychiatry at the UCLA School of Medicine, the founding co-director of the UCLA Mindful Awareness Research Centre, and executive director of the Mindsight Institute. A graduate of Harvard Medical School, Dr. Siegel is the author of several books, including the New York Times bestsellers Brainstorm, Mind, and, with Tina Payne Bryson, The Whole-Brain Child and No-Drama Discipline. He is also the author of the bestsellers Mindsight and, with Mary Hartzell, Parenting from the Inside Out. He lives in Los Angeles with his wife, with welcome visits from their adult son and daughter.
Tina Payne Bryson, Ph.D., is a pediatric and adolescent psychotherapist, parenting consultant, and the director of parenting education and development for the Mindsight Institute. A frequent lecturer to parents, educators, and professionals, she lives near Los Angeles with her husband and three children.
Hardip F
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Mixing science with child development & integration
3 December 2018
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The most useful parenting book read thus far. The authors clearly explain child developmental challenges with brain activity without deep diving into the science. If anything, reading this book makes you appreciate that our little ones can only do so much with the brain they have and it’s up to us as parents to guide them to realising their full potential over the years. You will become more patient with tantrums, patient that they prefer blue socks over green and you will appreciate sharing proper quality time which can only benefit us all! An excellent read. Very useful, easy to read, highly recommended. Thank you!
8 people found this helpful
Mrs Ahmad
⭐⭐⭐⭐ Just read a summary of the book
14 December 2018
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Not that great. I just kept hearing a
North American accent as I was reading it… too much waffle and seemed repetitive. I could have read a summary of points instead of wasting time reading the whole book.
6 people found this helpful
Sophie Pitt
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Life-changing
24 January 2016
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I urge any parent or any person who works with children to read this. The recommendations are too important to bypass. Plus, it’s a genuinely enjoyable and easy read. Fantastic!
17 people found this helpful
Paul
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Excellent book
1 August 2016
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I would recommend this book to any parent. This book along with No Drama Discipline gave me a new perspective on parenting my 4 year old boys
19 people found this helpful
Allan Clarke
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Fantastic book!
15 March 2018
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Fantastic book for any parent or individual in the helping professions. As both a psychotherapist and parent this ticked all the boxes. A long time since I looked forward to reading a book every night the way I did with The Whole Brain Child.
6 people found this helpful
Khalid
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ A must-read for all parents
30 January 2019
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Easy to read and such useful information. They give you the background/science and then age-appropriate solutions to each problem you might encounter. I especially like the chapter about tantrums and how to deal with them.
I’ve referred back to it a few times to remind myself of the key points and I suspect I’ll be doing so for many years to come.
3 people found this helpful
Books-For-Everyone Customer
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Brilliant parenting book
2 December 2017
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If there is one parenting book you read make it this one!! Honestly a true gem to get into the mind of a child and great tools to help you connect with your children . I’m so glad I came across this
5 people found this helpful
Carol Potter
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Every parent should read this book – explains the mind in an understandable way
15 January 2018
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Every parent should read this book. I wish I had read it as a parent, rather than Grand-parent. Makes perfect sense
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